Print Text Version Jump to transcript and print
Home > Modern Manners > General Etiquette

How To Complain In A Restaurant

Rate this Film: 
Click stars to rate this film
Viewing problems?  |   Report problem
Ratings: 83  | Views: 28485  | Added: Jan 05, 2007
Share
Favorite
Download
Text Version
Print

How To Complain In A Restaurant

How To Complain In A Restaurant

How to complain in a restaurant: VideoJug presents an easy to follow guide to complaining in a restaurant that won't leave you blushing. Videojug describes the correct etiquette involved when complaining in a restaurant.



Step 1:

You will need

  • A sub-standard restaurant
  • a slow or rude waiter
  • a sprinkling of righteous indignation
  • a little tact and grace


Step 2:

Act immediately

The key to successful complaining is to highlight the problem immediately thereby giving the restaurant the opportunity to resolve the problem with minimum fuss- don't wait until you've eaten half of an inedible meal or for the bill to arrive to voice an objection.


Step 3:

Identify your aims

Think about what you hope to achieve by complaining. Would an apology be enough? Would you like your food replaced? Or do you expect money off the bill?

If there is a hygiene issue you are unlikely to want a replacement meal and would probably just like to leave without being charged.


Step 4:

What can you expect?

Make sure your suggested resolution matches your complaint. If a meal you have ordered is well cooked and served as described on the menu but you just don't like it, it's unreasonable to demand compensation. However if you ask politely, many restaurants will be happy to offer you an alternative.


Step 5:

Allergies and dislikes

There are often ingredients guides on menus but to avoid problems it is worth telling the waiter of any allergies or aversions to particular ingredients while you're ordering. If any of the stated ingredients are then present in your meal you should complain and send it back immediately.


Step 6:

Contain your rage

You are less likely to get what you want by being rude or aggressive with a waiter. Discretely call them over, explain the problem, express your disappointment and ask them to resolve the situation.


Step 7:

Be assertive

Don't be shy - you're paying for a meal to be cooked properly and to be waited on efficiently and politely. If this isn't your experience then you are well within your rights to complain.


Step 8:

The next level

If your concerns are not met with an acceptable resolution ask, politely, to speak to the manager. Explain the problem and state that you are not satisfied with how it has been resolved.


Step 9:

Tipping

If service has been poor, reducing the tip or not leaving one at all is a powerful way of expressing your displeasure.

However, if the food was of a low standard but the waiter did a good job of addressing your complaint by giving you a discount or complimentary dish then a tip is still appropriate.


Step 10:

Outside help

If after complaining to the waiter and the manager you still feel like you have been fobbed off it's time to take your complaints to a higher authority. Contact your local consumer standards body for advice. In the UK you can try the Citizens Advice Bureau or the Office of Fair Trading.


Step 11:

Illness

If once you've left a restaurant you become ill from food poisoning that you believe can be traced back to the restaurant you should immediately report it to the food standards agency or department of health for everyone else's benefit as well as your own.


Step 12:

Compliment

As important as it is to complain if something has gone wrong during a meal, it's equally important to compliment and reward good or exceptional service.

Whether it's good or bad, feedback is often appreciated by managers as it offers them a real insight to the service they are providing, so speak up and enjoy your meal.

External Links
    Also known as:

    Suggest other titles for this film
    EmbedEmbed EmailEmail
    More

    Embed
    Link:
    Embed:

    Email a friend
    To:*
    Your Name:*
    Your Email:*
    Message:*
    Send

    Social Bookmarking
    Please login or sign up to add this to your Favorites.
    This has been added to your Favorites
    Remove from your favorites
    Add to your favorites
    You may also like to:
    Add to Favourites

    Bookmark in my Browser


    Subscribe to Related Topics:
    Subscriptions allow you to store topics in your profile,
    & to be alerted to new films within that topic.
    General Etiquette
    Please login or sign up to download the PSP, IPod or Mobile version.
    Sorry, no downloads available for this film.
    Download FREE to your:
    IPod IPod
    PSP PSP
    Cell Cell
     
    Why not download something extra?
    Popular subjects include: General Etiquette
    Order by:     
    Comments
    Submit
    Delete
    Report This
    1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful myscus (336 days ago)

    Despite what is said, in the UK, if your visit is that substandard you can actually offer to pay what you think the meal was worth rather than the menu price.... when the the management complain, let them call the police & then they will find that it is a civil matter rather than a criminal action... IE they will then have to prove to a court that the meal was 100% - not a lot of people know that :)

    Delete
    Report This
    Anonymous (365 days ago)

    Contacting the OFT could take days and also the local CAB. Call Consumer Direct or your Local Authorityl Trading Standards Service, if you become ill it is always a good idea to contact you Local Authority Environmenal health Department as they have the powers for inspection.

    Delete
    Report This
    2 out of 2 people found this comment helpful wheelnut53 (379 days ago)

    I always have at least one friend who can vomit on command. Its better than having a heart attack. just keep in mind you can never go back.

    Delete
    Report This
    2 out of 2 people found this comment helpful Anonymous (387 days ago)

    very goooooooooooooooood

    Delete
    Report This
    3 out of 3 people found this comment helpful ladyanwyn (445 days ago)

    I keep in mind that the wait staff does not always reflect the establishment, and that they are also human and have bad and good days. I learned a long time ago that I 'catch more flies with honey' and to look for at least one thing good about my experience. If it's that bad, I let things be and don't return. If it's worth another go, I give it a go.

    Delete
    Report This
    2 out of 2 people found this comment helpful Anonymous (451 days ago)

    Concerning step 9, servers cannot give disounts or complimentary dishes. That is up to management.

    Delete
    Report This
    2 out of 6 people found this comment helpful Anonymous (480 days ago)

    But leaving pennies is just plain rude and disespectful...Only people who come into town on a sunday, go for dinner once a year and believe they´ve bought the restaurant by ordering a salad and a glass of tab water would do that....

    Delete
    Report This
    3 out of 4 people found this comment helpful Anonymous (496 days ago)

    On Tipping: A large number of my extended family works in the serving industry at various classes of restaurants, and they all say the same thing. A small tip (pennies, for example) is a much stronger statement then no tip at all. Most servers will have a reasonable expectation of when there will not be a decent tip. Either they've seen your unhappiness, or you've already voiced concern. By not leaving a tip, you simply let the tone you've left or comments you've made be then end of the story. By digging through your pockets or bag for some insignificant amount of money, you're adding that one final kick.

    Delete
    Report This
    2 out of 2 people found this comment helpful Anonymous (518 days ago)

    well, this is a very good tip on a how to complain and how to react on a complaint in the restraunt, I mean this is a way to also learn good complaint manners too atleast!

    Delete
    Report This
    2 out of 4 people found this comment helpful Anonymous (529 days ago)

    LMAOO HOW TO COMPLAIN IN A RESTRAUNT!!!

    Delete
    Report This
    3 out of 4 people found this comment helpful Anonymous (529 days ago)

    LMFAO!!! HOW TO COMPLAIN IN A RESTAUNT!! LMAOO ....Man this video jug has like EVERYYTHING

    Delete
    Report This
    4 out of 4 people found this comment helpful Anonymous (533 days ago)

    I never complain. I find here in the US that people are more rude. I am from US and I hate to say that we have very bad manners! NOt "everyone" but some complain about nothing. I like the videos!

    Delete
    Report This
    3 out of 3 people found this comment helpful Anonymous (560 days ago)

    Obvious but a reminder!!!!!!!!!!!

    Delete
    Report This
    4 out of 4 people found this comment helpful anivash2001 (564 days ago)

    very very very good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Delete
    Report This
    4 out of 4 people found this comment helpful Anonymous (567 days ago)

    Great advice! thanks! I will take that in the future.

    Previous 1 2 Next
    Page 1 of 2

    Related Topics

    • General Etiquette
      TOPIC
      Contains all content on General Etiquette:
      20 Films
      10 Discussions

    Sponsored Links

    Watch Next
     Get Out Of A Car Without Showing Your Knickers
    VIDEO
    02:46
    Get Out Of A Car Without Showing Your Knickers
    Views: 695,520
     Give A Great Man To Man Hug
    VIDEO
    03:58
    Give A Great Man To Man Hug
    Views: 339,112
    What To Do If You Catch Your Parents Having Sex
    VIDEO
    03:42
    What To Do If You Catch Your Parents Having Sex
    Views: 90,320
     Air Kiss
    VIDEO
    02:35
    Air Kiss
    Views: 81,719
     Get Served Quickly At A Bar
    VIDEO
    03:46
    Get Served Quickly At A Bar
    Views: 135,872
     Give A Homie Handshake
    VIDEO
    03:22
    Give A Homie Handshake
    Views: 119,535
     Give And Receive Compliments
    VIDEO
    02:56
    Give And Receive Compliments
    Views: 38,586